Some guys are better off. Why? Because it contains the flaws that will destroy your whole future life. And you will never succeed in correcting them. Once again, by letter ... never succeed!
How not to connect their fate with a man with whom family life will be a real torture? You just need to know what it looks like.
Home Tyrant
If you complain to someone of your faithful, in response, you just "twist at the temple." The house tyrant is a loyal, economic, loving husband. In society, he willingly shows his care and flexibility. In the period of romantic relationships, he is ready to fulfill every whim lover. But do not flatter yourself. A man can not be easily controlled or "plasticine." That he only seeks to seem so.
Over time, the house tyrant is punctured on what is beginning to find fault. His cavils are not serious reasons, but rather "sucked from the finger." It’s easier to agree with a house tyrant than to argue. Entering with him in the "fight", you bring him great pleasure. And the more you try to fulfill his requirements, the higher they grow. Like all immature personalities, a tyrant will never take responsibility for his life. In all his troubles will be blamed the most beloved and close people.
Alcoholic
Living with an alcoholic is a roller coaster. Just yesterday, he was a wonderful father and husband, and today he is crawling home on all fours. But this will not happen immediately. Do not expect an alcoholic to show his passion for drinking from first dates. In the early stages of the disease is a strong-willed, energetic man. An alcoholic is able to care and conquer. It's easy to fall in love with him. He can be charming, intelligent, witty. By the way, often drink lovers have a sparkling sense of humor.
He is the soul of the company and has many friends. As the well-known psychotherapist M.E. writes in his book. Litvak roughly like this is explained in love by an alcoholic: “I love you! Perhaps in real life it sounds less eloquent, but the main message remains the same: "I’ll be lost without you." If a woman wants to remain a woman, not an eternal pursuer, then she should not associate life with this man.
Womanizer
This man is in perpetual search. His gaze never stops, but the woman will not notice (or will not). After all, a womanizer, like an alcoholic, knows how to care, to conquer. He may well be married and will not hide his status, although, most likely, this woman who is enchanted by him will not be embarrassed.
She is captivated by his manners, attention, compliments, which he pours in a peculiar manner. If a womanizer is not an alcoholic, then, as a rule, he has few friends. After all, he does not like to share the attention of women. A womanizer is very easy to recognize, the main thing is to want to do it. But the belief that all men are womanizer is wrong. The reasons for this behavior may be different, including the unfavorable climate in the family.
Sissy
And this guy was physically born, but psychologically not. Often this is prevented by the mother herself. She stubbornly refuses to admit that the son is not her property, but a free person. Not only women of my mother's son become unhappy from such maternal love, but he too. As a rule, he is a good guy. She understands and feels women, pays attention to them, sometimes even gives them gifts that she chooses with her mother. Of course, love here and does not smell. The main thing is that the companion was good, like a mother.
Crazy, rash acts he performs extremely rarely (never). Infantilism and egoism can manifest in his character. It’s ridiculous to wait for a mama’s boy to talk about his mom for a day. He just throws his mother's phrases. The qualities that distinguish him are the lack of initiative, the inability to make decisions, the inability to live and difficulties. What is fraught with a relationship with such a man? - True hell. Two mothers do not place under the same roof.
Gigolo
At the beginning, Alphonse will pay himself. Then, carefully probe the soil. For example, he may by chance remember that he did not have time to exchange or withdraw money when the waiter had already brought you an account at the restaurant. His arguments are easy to foresee: I forgot my wallet, I only had my currency with me, blocked my credit card, etc. He acts so cunningly that a woman has no choice but to pay herself. Meanwhile, he observes how easily you part with the money.
By the way, on dates he sometimes pays, but these amounts are many times less than what you spend. Further development of the relationship depends on the woman’s reaction to these maneuvers. He is capable of romantic deeds. It seems that this man is madly in love, catches your every word, but in fact he is just a flatterer. One has only to show his insolvency and this man will disappear from your life.
During the period of romantic dates, women tend to idealize their chosen ones, turn a blind eye to their shortcomings and believe that any man can be changed. Building relationships, it is worth considering that you can only change yourself, and beautiful courtship have nothing to do with a strong family.
